feat: introduce guests as nested-container definitions

Add a third auto-loaded kind beside the host and the module: the guest, a
reusable definition under guests/ that a host enables like a module and that
realizes its interior as a systemd-nspawn nested container.

Split the shared base config so a guest can stand on it.
base.nix now holds the substrate both bases share — the primary user,
home-manager, and the unstable/stable overlays.
system.nix keeps the host-only machinery, and a new guest.nix is the slim
guest-base: it imports the full modules tree, pins the interior release, and
auto-enables the toolkit bundle and SSH so any guest is workable on sight.

Give modules.ssh a guest flavor.
A host restores its host keys from secrets as before, while a guest sets
hostKeys.restore = false, names no sops files, and self-generates a host key,
so it holds no age key of its own.

The lib grows a guest helper that declares the guests.<path> namespace with an
enable and a backend field.
Only the container backend is built; microvm is a reserved value that trips a
clear build-time assertion rather than silently building nothing.

A sample guest exercises the whole path, and neogaia enables it, so the guest
interior builds through the existing nix flake check seam.

guests/sample.nix

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+args@{ my, ... }:
+# The tracer-bullet guest: the thinnest complete path from discovery to a
+# running nested container. Its interior is just the guest-base — the baseline
+# toolset and SSH access — so it proves the concept without carrying a service.
+my.guest { name = "sample"; } args