feat: add setup skill/hooks and update shadow (task 0018)

Distribute gitea-axi's ambient context via explicit user actions (ADRs
0009, 0013), with no postinstall script:

- Bundle the Agent Skill markdown at skills/gitea-axi/SKILL.md (a
  minimal pointer, not a command reference) and ship it via package.json
  files.
- Add `setup`, which installs the skill into ~/.claude/skills/
  idempotently (installed/updated/unchanged).
- Add `setup hooks`, which registers a SessionStart hook running the
  bare dashboard for Claude Code, Codex, and OpenCode via the SDK's
  installSessionStartHooks(), updating managed entries in place.
- Shadow the SDK's built-in `update` so it fails with VALIDATION_ERROR
  and points at the npm update command, keeping the ten-code error list
  intact.

Integration tests drive all three at the CLI seam against a temporary
HOME; these commands make no Gitea API calls, so there is no live-Gitea
e2e case.

package.json

@@ -11,7 +11,8 @@
     "gitea-axi": "dist/main.js"
   },
   "files": [
-    "dist"
+    "dist",
+    "skills"
   ],
   "scripts": {
     "build": "tsc -p tsconfig.build.json",